9 Tips for How to Use the Rose Toy on a Man

Rose toys are sold as clit toys, but the suction and licking work on plenty of other spots, and a partner with a penis can enjoy one just as much. All it takes is some lube, the lowest setting and a bit of curiosity.

Using the sucking or licking functions to stimulate various parts of the male body that include nipples, penis, scrotum, perineum, and anus is a fantastic way to enhance his sexual satisfaction. You can experiment with this during foreplay, oral sex, and intercourse.

Plenty of guys get turned on by watching their partner masturbate, too. So try using the rose toy on yourself to get both your juices flowing. Play in positions like spread eagle, side fetal, and doggy, and experiment with mirrors to give you and him a better view!

In this article we'll cover several ways you can use the rose vibrator with your man. Here is a summary list of what we'll cover:

1. Stimulate his nipples

2. Arouse the tip & head of his penis

3. Massage the perineum

4. Play with his balls

5. Explore rimming & anal play

6. Play with yourself

7. Let him take control

8. Use during intercourse

9. Have fun in the shower

Let's dive in!

#1 Nipple Suction

We’ll start with a steamy warm-up using a suction rose toy for gentle nipple stimulation.

Nipple play is often overlooked, but it can be a powerful tool to increase arousal and set the mood for further exploration.

The vacuum-like sensation provided by a suction toy will surely make your partner’s toes curl.

To use the rose toy for nipple suction, follow these steps:

1. Start by lubricating the nipple with saliva using your tongue or mouth

2. Introduce the rose toy powered off by stimulating the nipple with the toy's mouth

3. Now power on the rose toy and set it to it's lowest setting

4. Gently press the mouth of the toy onto the nipple, start with the tip

5. Try using slow circular and twisting motions

6. Experiment with pressure and suction intensities

Pro Tip: Run your fingers through his hair, or gently run your nails down his chest while stimulating his nipples with the rose toy

Looking for a suction rose toy? Checkout our Blossom Suction Rose Toy

#2 Just the Tip...and Head

By using the suction feature of the rose toy on the tip or head of his penis, you can provide unique sensations that can lead to intense arousal and explosive orgasms.

Try this during foreplay, between sex positions, and right before orgasm.

To get started, follow these steps:

1. Lubricate your partner's penis with saliva or lube

2. Introduce the rose toy powered off, using sensual movement to stimulate the area

3. Now power on the rose toy and set it to it's lowest setting

4. Gently press the mouth of the toy onto the tip

5. Move the rose toy all around the head of his penis

6. Spend some time underneath the head, this is a very sensitive area

7. Experiment with pressure and suction intensities

Pro Tip: Jack him off, or stroke his shaft with your hand, while stimulating the tip and head of his penis with the rose toy.

Remember, open dialogue is key as always. Make sure to ask your partner how they feel and adjust the intensity or settings as needed.

Related: An Explorer's Guide to the Rose Clit Sucker

#3 Massage the Perineum

Have you heard of the perineum? This is the area between the balls and the anus. It is a highly sensitive spot that can feel really good when massaged during foreplay and intercourse.

Use the rose toy to stimulate this frequently overlooked area, providing an additional layer of stimulation for your partner. This can can lead your man to more pleasure and intense orgasm.

With some lube or saliva, gently press the suction head or licking tongue of the rose toy against the perineum and adjust the settings according to your partner’s preferences.

Check in with your partner to ensure they’re comfortable and enjoying the perineum massage. You might just discover a whole new world of pleasure by incorporating the rose toy in this way.

Pro Tip: Use your mouth on his penis while you massage the perineum with your rose toy.

Related: How to Clean Your Rose Toy & Other Sex Toys

#4 Play with His Balls

Men like when you play with their balls. So take your partner’s pleasure to the next level by using the rose sex toy to stimulate his testicles.

To get started, follow these steps:

1. Lubricate his balls with saliva or lube

2. Gently cup them with your hand

3. Slowly press the suction head of the rose toy against one testicle at a time

4. Use slow circular and twisting motions to add stimulation

5. Adjust the settings according to your partner’s desires

The testicles are sensitive members of the male genitalia go slow and be gentle!

Pro Tip: Suck on his balls before and after stimulating them with rose sex toys. This will provide natural lubrication and get him rock hard.

Related: Is the Rose Toy Safe?

#5 Explore Rimming & Anal Play

Rimming, aka analingus, is the act of stimulating the area around the anus. Typically this is performed with the tongue or fingers, but using rose sex toys is a great alternative!

The anus is a highly sensitive area that can feel really good when stimulated properly. This can provide a new and exciting sensation that can open up a world of possibilities for your intimate moments.

Both a suction and a licking rose toy can be used to tease his butt hole.

To begin, follow these steps:

1. Apply some saliva or lube to the area with your fingers

2. Gently press the rose tongue or mouth against it

3. Experiment with slow circular and twisting motions

4. Adjust the intensity and pressure according to your partner’s preferences

5. Let the suction or licking stimulation from the rose sex toys work its magic

Using a rose toy to stimulate your partner's anus could be a great way to introduce anal stimulation. If you have yet to explore this with your man, then you are definitely missing out.

Like any form of anal play, maintaining open dialogue, exploring together, and ensuring safety are key. Be sure to check in with your partner, take it slow, and use lubricant to ensure a comfortable and enjoyable experience for both of you.

Pro Tip: Keep the rose on the outside. Rose toys are made for external play, so tease the rim rather than going inside, and wash the toy before it goes anywhere else.

Related Product: Flora Licking Rose Toy

#6 Play with Yourself

Another exciting way to add variety to your bedroom activities is by demonstrating to your partner how you please yourself with a rose sex toy.

As you use the toy, make sure to maintain eye contact with your partner and let your facial expressions convey how much you’re enjoying the experience.

Experiment with different positions like spread eagle with your knees up or legs in the air. Try laying on your side in fetal position, stimulating yourself from behind.

Bent over is another way to give him a great view. Try this on your knees or while standing, reaching underneath to stimulate yourself.

Finally, experiment with mirrors to give him diverse views. Having a mirror in the bedroom can significantly enhance your viewing pleasure. He'll love watching you orgasm.

Related: How to Use a Rose Toy: A Step-by-Step Guide

#7 Give Him Control

Some men get off using sex toys on their partner. So make sure to give him the reigns once in a while!

You can take it to another level by giving him a hand job or performing oral while he stimulates you with the rose sex toy. Here are some positions you can try for mutual satisfaction:

1. On your back with your man on his knees beside you

2. Sitting on the edge of your bed with your man standing

3. Bent over on your knees or standing with your man beside you

4. The classic 69 with your man on his back or on his side

Using sex toys with your man is not all about using it directly on his body. Trust us and the sex toy industry when we say that he'll enjoy watching you use it on yourself and taking brief control of your sexual satisfaction.

Related: Rose Toy 101: Everything You Need to Know

#8 Incorporate During Intercourse

Why not incorporate the rose sex toy during intercourse? This can be done by using the rose toy to stimulate your clitoris, the base of his penis shaft, his balls and perineum.

Your man can feel the vibrations delivered by the sucking or licking functions of the rose toy while he is inside of you. It adds a whole extra layer of sensation for both of you.

Here are some positions you can try that will allow you to use the rose toy during sex:

1. Missionary

2. Reverse cow girl

3. Doggy style

As always, maintaining an open dialogue is important. Make sure to discuss your preferences and adjust the intensity or settings as needed. By incorporating the rose sex toy during intercourse, you can create a shared, pleasurable experience for both you and your partner.

Related: Best Rose Toy: How to Pick One

#9 Have Fun in the Shower

When was the last time you enjoyed a shower with your partner?

This could be a great opportunity to do so, bringing your rose toy along with added fun.

Use the rose toy to stimulate yourself and your partner in all the areas already discussed. Try stimulating his nipples, penis, balls, and perineum while warm water trickles down his back.

Just make sure that you have a quality rose toy purchased from a trusted source. Pikavibe roses are rated IPX7, so they can go fully underwater. Rose toys bought from marketplaces and questionable websites may not be waterproof at all, so check the rating first.

Related: Is the Rose Toy Safe? Side Effects, Myths and What to Check

Using a Rose Toy With Any Partner

Everything above works whoever you’re with. The rose doesn’t care about anatomy, only about finding a spot that likes suction or a tongue. A few things that help with any partner:

• Let them steer. Hand over the rose and give directions, or swap who holds it halfway through.
• Start on the lowest mode. Suction feels different on every body and every spot, so build up slowly.
• Talk while you play. “Higher,” “lower” and “stay there” is all it takes.
• Wash between bodies and between spots, especially after anywhere near the butt. How to Clean Your Rose Toy has the routine.

Rose Toy for Men: FAQs

Is there a male rose toy?

Not a separate one. A standard rose works on a penis, nipples, balls and the perineum as it is. Suction suits the head and nipples; a licking rose suits the frenulum, balls and perineum.

Can you use a rose toy on a penis?

Yes, externally. Add water-based lube, place the opening over the tip or just under the head with the toy switched off, then turn it on at the lowest mode. Keep it moving and check in often.

Which rose is better for him, Blossom or Flora?

Blossom’s suction works best on the tip and on nipples. Flora’s tongue is better for the frenulum, balls and perineum, where you want flicking rather than a seal. If you’re sharing one rose, Blossom covers more ground.

Do you need to clean a rose toy between body parts?

Yes. Wash it with warm water and mild soap when you switch between partners, and always before it goes from the butt to anywhere else.

Browse all the rose toys, or see how the four compare in Rose Toy 101.

Conclusion

A rose toy works on a lot more than a clit. Start with nipples or the tip, try the perineum and balls, use it on yourself while he watches, then bring it into sex and the shower. Go slow, use water-based lube, and keep talking.

Not sure which rose toy is right for you? Try our Magic Matchmaker Quiz