9 Tips for How to Use the Rose Toy on a Man

December 6, 2023

Although rose toys are designed for women, male partners can enjoy them as well with a bit of creativity and willingness to explore.

Using the sucking or licking functions to stimulate various parts of the male body that include nipples, penis, scrotum, perineum, and anus is a fantastic way to enhance his sexual satisfaction. You can experiment with this during foreplay, oral sex, and intercourse.

Most men get turned on by watching their partner masturbate. So try using the rose toy on yourself to get both your juices flowing. Play in positions like spread eagle, side fetal, and doggy, and experiment with mirrors to give you and him a better view!

In this article we'll cover several ways you can use the rose vibrator with your man. Here is a summary list of what we'll cover:

Stimulate his nipples
Arouse the tip & head of his penis
Massage the perineum
Play with his balls
Explore rimming & anal play
Play with yourself
Let him take control
Use during intercourse
Have fun in the shower

Let's dive in!

#1 Nipple Suction

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We’ll start with a steamy warm-up using a suction rose toy for gentle nipple stimulation.

Nipple play is often overlooked, but it can be a powerful tool to increase arousal and set the mood for further exploration.

The vacuum-like sensation provided by a suction toy will surely make your partner’s toes curl.

To use the rose toy for nipple suction, follow these steps:

Start by lubricating the nipple with saliva using your tongue or mouth
Introduce the rose toy powered off by stimulating the nipple with the toy's mouth
Now power on the rose toy and set it to it's lowest setting
Gently press the mouth of the toy onto the nipple, start with the tip
Try using slow circular and twisting motions
Experiment with pressure and suction intensities

Pro Tip: Run your fingers through his hair, or gently run your nails down his chest while stimulating his nipples with the rose toy

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#2 Just the Tip...and Head

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By using the suction feature of the rose toy on the tip or head of his penis, you can provide unique sensations that can lead to intense arousal and explosive orgasms.

Try this during foreplay, between sex positions, and right before orgasm.

To get started, follow these steps:

Lubricate your partner's penis with saliva or lube
Introduce the rose toy powered off, using sensual movement to stimulate the area
Now power on the rose toy and set it to it's lowest setting
Gently press the mouth of the toy onto the tip
Move the rose toy all around the head of his penis
Spend some time underneath the head, this is a very sensitive area
Experiment with pressure and suction intensities

Pro Tip: Jack him off, or stroke his shaft with your hand, while stimulating the tip and head of his penis with the rose toy.

Remember, open dialogue is key as always. Make sure to ask your partner how they feel and adjust the intensity or settings as needed.

#3 Massage the Perineum

Have you heard of the perineum? This is the area between the balls and the anus. It is a highly sensitive spot that can feel really good when massaged during foreplay and intercourse.

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Use the rose toy to stimulate this frequently overlooked area, providing an additional layer of stimulation for your partner. This can can lead your man to more pleasure and intense orgasm.

With some lube or saliva, gently press the suction head or licking tongue of the rose toy against the perineum and adjust the settings according to your partner’s preferences.

Check in with your partner to ensure they’re comfortable and enjoying the perineum massage. You might just discover a whole new world of pleasure by incorporating the rose toy in this way.

Pro Tip: Use your mouth on his penis while you massage the perineum with your rose toy.

#4 Play with His Balls

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Men like when you play with their balls. So take your partner’s pleasure to the next level by using the rose sex toy to stimulate his testicles.

To get started, follow these steps:

Lubricate his balls with saliva or lube
Gently cup them with your hand
Slowly press the suction head of the rose toy against one testicle at a time
Use slow circular and twisting motions to add stimulation
Adjust the settings according to your partner’s desires

The testicles are sensitive members of the male genitalia go slow and be gentle! Don't be surprised if this leads to harder and longer lasting erections.

Pro Tip: Suck on his balls before and after stimulating them with rose sex toys. This will provide natural lubrication and get him rock hard.

#5 Explore Rimming & Anal Play

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Rimming, aka analingus, is the act of stimulating the area around the anus. Typically this is performed with the tongue or fingers, but using rose sex toys is a great alternative!

The anus is a highly sensitive area that can feel really good when stimulated properly. This can provide a new and exciting sensation that can open up a world of possibilities for your intimate moments.

Both a suction and a licking rose toy can be used to tease his butt hole.

To begin, follow these steps:

Apply some saliva or lube to the area with your fingers
Gently press the rose tongue or mouth against it
Experiment with slow circular and twisting motions
Adjust the intensity and pressure according to your partner’s preferences
Let the suction or licking stimulation from the rose sex toys work its magic

Using a rose toy to stimulate your partner's anus could be a great way to introduce anal stimulation. If you have yet to explore this with your man, then you are definitely missing out.

Like any form of anal play, maintaining open dialogue, exploring together, and ensuring safety are key. Be sure to check in with your partner, take it slow, and use lubricant to ensure a comfortable and enjoyable experience for both of you.

Pro Tip: Try gentle anal penetration with the tongue of your licking rose toy. Just the tip of the tongue can feel really good. Make sure to use lots of lubricant.

Related Product: Flora Licking Rose Toy

#6 Play with Yourself

Another exciting way to add variety to your bedroom activities is by demonstrating to your partner how you please yourself with a rose sex toy.

As you use the toy, make sure to maintain eye contact with your partner and let your facial expressions convey how much you’re enjoying the experience.

Experiment with different positions like spread eagle with your knees up or legs in the air. Try laying on your side in fetal position, stimulating yourself from behind.

Bent over is another way to give him a great view. Try this on your knees or while standing, reaching underneath to stimulate yourself.

Finally, experiment with mirrors to give him diverse views. Having a mirror in the bedroom can significantly enhance your viewing pleasure. He'll love watching you orgasm.

#7 Give Him Control

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Some men get off using sex toys on their partner. So make sure to give him the reigns once in a while!

You can take it to another level by giving him a hand job or performing oral while he stimulates you with the rose sex toy. Here are some positions you can try for mutual satisfaction:

On your back with your man on his knees beside you
Sitting on the edge of your bed with your man standing
Bent over on your knees or standing with your man beside you
The classic 69 with your man on his back or on his side

Using sex toys with your man is not all about using it directly on his body. Trust us and the sex toy industry when we say that he'll enjoy watching you use it on yourself and taking brief control of your sexual satisfaction.

#8 Incorporate During Intercourse

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Why not incorporate the rose sex toy during intercourse? This can be done by using the rose toy to stimulate your clitoris, the base of his penis shaft, his balls and perineum.

Your man can feel the vibrations delivered by the sucking or licking functions of the rose toy while he is inside of you. This can lead your man to harder erections, faster climax, and explosive orgasm.

Here are some positions you can try that will allow you to use the rose toy during sex:

Missionary
Reverse cow girl
Doggy style

As always, maintaining an open dialogue is important. Make sure to discuss your preferences and adjust the intensity or settings as needed. By incorporating the rose sex toy during intercourse, you can create a shared, pleasurable experience for both you and your partner.

#9 Have Fun in the Shower

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When was the last time you enjoyed a shower with your partner?

This could be a great opportunity to do so, bringing your rose toy along with added fun.

Use the rose toy to stimulate yourself and your partner in all the areas already discussed. Try stimulating his nipples, penis, balls, and perineum while warm water trickles down his back.

Just make sure that you have a quality rose toy purchased from a trusted source. Rose toys purchased from Amazon, Temu and questionable websites may not be completely waterproof.

And don't get caught up trying to find the "original rose sex toy" as this is a complete myth.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the rose toy is a versatile tool that can be used in a variety of ways to enhance sexual satisfaction for both men and women.

From nipple stimulation to anal play, this toy can be integrated into foreplay, intercourse, and solo play. Not only does it provide unique sensations when used on different parts of the body, but it also allows for mutual pleasure when used during intercourse or when your partner takes control.

Furthermore, the rose toy can be used in the shower for a steamy and exciting experience.

As with any sexual activity, it's important to maintain open dialogue, explore together, and ensure safety. So, why not bring a rose toy into your bedroom and discover a whole new world of pleasure?

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