Sexual Music: Exploring the Relationship Between Music and Masturbation
Have you ever wondered what the playlist to your life would sound like? We have. There are angry ra-ra songs that you stick it to the man to when you're angry. Songs that are banned from your in-car playlist because you WILL end up with a ticket. Songs that lull your hips into swaying like that old loved-up couple slow dancing in their kitchen at 90... so how about songs for self-love, songs to have sex to? Music and masturbation are two natural parts of life - so what exactly happens when you combine the two?
Whether you are from the Pink Floyd generation of soft rock and roll love tunes or prefer something a little more interesting like a girl power rap song - one thing can be said - music is one of the best ways to enhance your sexual experience whether you are playing solo or with a partner. Here's our guide to exploring the best songs to get dirty.
The Science
Different strokes for different folks is an adage that rings true, especially regarding pleasure. No one feels sexy when they hear the next-door neighbour's construction crew knocking out walls or the sound of the dog barking across the road. For sensory people, it might boil down to the texture of the sheets, perhaps the temperature of the room, or the feel of a sex toy; for others, sound has a significant role to play. n-'Music is a great way to drown it all out and set the mood.
Studies have shown that music can significantly impact sexual pleasure and arousal. Listening to music can activate the brain's reward system, much like the act of masturbation itself, releasing dopamine and other feel-good chemicals that contribute to feelings of pleasure and satisfaction.
The Truth Behind Sensual Songs
Music can increase heart rate, blood flow, and sexual arousal. Additionally, music has been found to lower stress levels and promote relaxation, which can be particularly helpful for those who struggle with anxiety or performance issues during masturbation or when it comes to having partnered sex.
Hey, it's okay if you don't automatically know what your particular sex song is. It might take a while or a playlist or three. It is like dessert. Sometimes it takes a while to find the right one; other times, you know right away.
The Soft Smooth Notes
These songs are softer - they aren't necessarily directly related to sex; they are great for foreplay, unwinding and de-stressing.
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Blue Jeans - Lana Del rey
This dreamy and nostalgic track is about a timeless romance's power and allure. With Lana Del Rey's haunting and ethereal vocals and the slow and hypnotic melody of the song, you'll be transported to a world of nostalgia and longing.
Wicked Game - Chris Isaak
This moody and atmospheric track is about the thrill and the danger of forbidden love. With Chris Isaak's brooding and seductive vocals and the song's haunting melody, you'll feel the tension and the passion.
Easy - Son Lux
This gentle and soothing track is about the simplicity and the ease of a love that feels just right. You'll feel warmth and comfort with Ryan Lott's soft and tender vocals and the song's gentle and soothing melody.
Nothing's Gonna Hurt You - Cigarettes After Sex
This melancholy and introspective track is about the pain and the struggle of letting go of a past love. With Greg Gonzalez's delicate and expressive vocals and the slow and mournful melody of the song, you'll be feeling the ache and the sadness.
Lullaby - JJ Grey And Mofro
Talk about smooth and sultry sexy songs - This soulful and tender track is all about the comfort and the reassurance of being with someone you love. You'll feel the love and tenderness with JJ Grey's warm and heartfelt vocals and the song's gentle and soothing melody.
Montero - Lil Nas X
This bold and daring track celebrates and embraces your sexuality and identity. You'll feel empowered and free with Lil Nas X's confident and unapologetic vocals and the song's infectious and upbeat melody.
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Rock Your World
Getting your rocks off is a simple task that calls for a few classic ballads. From raunchy vocals to sublime guitar riffs, they ooze with power, sensuality, and pure unadulterated sexual healing energy. Think of late week nights, petting out any frustration the week has thrown your way!
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Sex on Fire - Kings of Leon
This energetic and passionate track is about physical desire's intensity and heat. With Caleb Followill's raspy and raw vocals and the driving rock beat of the song, you'll be feeling the fire and the passion.
Miss You - The Rolling Stones
This classic rock track is all about the ache and the longing of missing someone special. With Mick Jagger's soulful and bluesy vocals and the catchy guitar riff of the song, you'll be feeling the tug of your heartstrings.
I Feel Like Makin' Love - Bad Company
This smooth and soulful track is all about physical love's power and magic. With Paul Rodgers' silky and seductive vocals and the slow and sensual melody of the song, you'll be feeling the heat and the intensity.
I Touch Myself - Divinyls
This playful and provocative track is about exploring and celebrating your sexuality. With Chrissy Amphlett's sassy and confident vocals and the upbeat and catchy rhythm of the song, you'll feel empowered and free
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Pure Raunchy
Make no mistake; this selection is purely sexual. These tracks can get the juices flowing and set every intention out there. They are best blasted through headphones, and in a dim or dark room, light a candle or two while you are at it.
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Lollipop Lil Wayne
Leave nothing to the imagination - this track is not for the subtle. It is fun, flirty, and all about the thrill of seduction and the excitement of exploring your sexuality. With Lil Wayne's playful and cheeky lyrics and the song's catchy beat, you'll be feeling the heat and the passion.
Closer - Nine Inch Nails
Be warned; this dark and moody track is all about the tension and connection between two people. It is raunchy and decadent. With Trent Reznor's brooding vocals and the intense and hypnotic melody of the song, you'll be drawn into a world of desire and obsession.
Love to Love You Baby - Donna Summer
This tunes legacy will live on with more than one baby's creation credited to it. This classic disco track is all about the pleasures and the ecstasy of physical love. With Donna Summer's seductive and sultry vocals and the pulsing beat of the song, you'll be transported to a world of sensuality and pleasure.
Pink Matter - Frank Ocean Link
Dreamy and atmospheric - this track is about exploring the depths of your emotions and desires. With Frank Ocean's soulful and introspective vocals and the ethereal melody of the song, you'll be lost in your thoughts and feelings.
Earned it - The Weeknd - Fifty Shades of Grey
This seductive, steamy track is about the power and the thrill of submission and domination. With The Weeknd's smooth and sensual vocals and the slow and sultry melody of the song, you'll be drawn into a world of fantasy and desire.
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Empowered Female
When it comes to powerhouse orgasms, some amazing songs out there will make you feel like the powerhouse you are. These songs have powerful lyrics or a catchy beat; they are great for getting in the mood to feel yourself. So grab your mirror and your favourite toy - it is time to tap in.
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WAP - Cardi B ft. Megan Thee Stallion
Raunchy, wet and wild weekends come to mind regarding WAP. If you need to get your entire body into the mood to groove, this track does exactly that. If you need to feel like a certified freak - Cardi and Megan Thee Stallion have your back!
I Wanna Make Love to You - Etta James
This song has a slow, bluesy rhythm that creates a sultry atmosphere. The lyrics are straightforward and direct, expressing a desire for physical intimacy. Etta James' powerful and soulful voice adds to the song's sensuality, making it a classic romantic ballad that can set the mood for a steamy evening.
God Is A Woman - Ariana Grande
This empowering and seductive anthem celebrates the power of femininity and the beauty of the female body. The slow and sensual beat of the song, combined with Ariana Grande's seductive vocals, creates an intimate and passionate atmosphere that can inspire awe and reverence. With its poetic lyrics and Ariana's playful vocals, this song is perfect for a fun and flirty night.
I Like It Rough - Lady Gaga Link
This song is a high-energy and edgy track that expresses a desire for intense physical sensation. The lyrics are explicit and provocative, describing rough and passionate sex. The fast-paced beat of the song, along with Lady Gaga's powerful vocals, can create a sense of excitement and anticipation, making it a good choice for a more adventurous and wild experience.
Side to Side - Ariana Grande ft. Nicki Minaj
This song has a playful and catchy melody that can get people moving and grooving. The lyrics describe the physical exhaustion and satisfaction that comes from having intense sex. The suggestive lyrics, combined with the energetic beat and the chemistry between Ariana Grande and Nicki Minaj, can create a fun and flirty atmosphere that can lead to some steamy moments.
Mount Everest - Labarinth
This song is a slow and sensual ballad that describes the speaker's desire to climb their lover's body like a mountain. The lyrics are poetic and evocative, creating a sense of intimacy and passion. The slow and smooth beat of the song, along with Labrinth's soulful vocals, can create a romantic and dreamy atmosphere that can inspire deep emotional connection.
BEST FRIEND - Saweetie ft Doja Cat
This song is a confident and assertive track that celebrates female sexuality and power. The lyrics are explicit and provocative, describing a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it. The upbeat and catchy beat of the song, along with Saweetie and Doja Cat's confident vocals, can create a sense of empowerment and seduction that can be very arousing.
Tap In - Saweetie
This fun and flirty track is perfect for getting your body moving and your heart racing. With its suggestive lyrics and Saweetie's playful vocals, this song will inspire you to let loose and enjoy the moment. The fast-paced beat of the song, along with Saweetie's confident vocals, can create a sense of energy and excitement that can lead to some hot and steamy moments.
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Slow 'n Sensual
These aren't tracks you will find in your average strip club - perhaps one or two of these songs will have been hits when they came out. However, these songs are slow, deep and sexy. They ooze with sex appeal - perfect at full volume through headphones, in the soft glow of the dawn or late at night. Sunday morning masturbation sessions are the perfect pair for these tracks! Think of hot booty calls or late-night phone sex when it comes to this list.
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The Hills - The Weeknd
This haunting and seductive track is all about living a life of excess and indulgence. With The Weeknd's smooth vocals and the moody atmosphere of the song, you'll be transported to a world of sensual pleasures and dark desires. You might want to grab a blindfold and blindfold yourself during solo play.
Untitled (How Does It Feel) - D'Angelo
This sultry and soulful ballad is the perfect choice for a steamy night; whether you play in the bath or on fresh sheets, the choice is yours. Hit play on this song, and you'll be feeling the heat in no time.
Redbone - Childish Gambino
This funky and groovy track is about getting dirty on the dance floor. With Childish Gambino's playful vocals and the song's infectious beat, you'll be moving your body and feeling the rhythm in no time. It is hauntingly good.
Climax - Usher
This emotionally charged and sensual track is all about the intense physical and emotional connection between two lovers. With Usher's smooth and soulful vocals and the slow, seductive melody of the song, you'll be swept away by the passion and intensity of the moment.
Goosebumps -Travis Scott Ft Kendrick Lamar
This hypnotic and entrancing track sets the mood for a wild and adventurous night. With Travis Scott and Kendrick Lamar's bold and energetic vocals and the pulsing beat of the song, you'll be ready to explore your deepest desires and fantasies.
Pony - Ginuwine
Magic Mike made this track famous; however, this classic R&B track is all about the joy and excitement of physical pleasure. With Ginuwine's smooth and seductive vocals and the song's catchy melody, you'll feel sexy and confident in your own skin.
Rock the Boat - Aaliyah
his smooth and sensual R&B track is about letting go and enjoying the ride. With Aaliyah's soft and sultry vocals and the laid-back groove of the song, you'll be swaying to the rhythm and feeling the breeze in your hair.
Peaches - Justin Bieber ft. Daniel Cesar
This playful and catchy track celebrates the sweet and juicy pleasures of life. With Justin and Daniel's smooth and silky vocals and the fun and upbeat melody of the song, you'll be singing along and playing to the beat in no time.
Touch My Body - Mariah Carey
Okay - this track is definitely not on the top track listing for any strip club, but it is a classic. Especially when you need to drop some not to subtle hints. We must warn you that this track can leave you in a fit of giggles - but that might just enhance your orgasm anyway!
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Bonus Tracks
Bon Appetit - Katy Perry and Migos
This cheeky and fun track is about indulging in the pleasures of the flesh. With Katy's sweet and sultry vocals and Migos' bold and playful rap verses, you'll be licking your lips and savouring every moment.
I Want Your Sex - George Michael
This bold and daring track is about expressing your deepest desires and fantasies. With George Michael's smooth and seductive vocals and the pulsing beat of the song, you'll be feeling the heat and the passion.
Old Town - Lil Nas X
This catchy and infectious track celebrates the freedom and excitement of living on your own terms. With Lil Nas X's playful and confident vocals and the fun and upbeat melody of the song, you'll be riding into the sunset with a smile on your face. Throw on your chaps and get your cowboy boots on.
Bad girl - Usher
This smooth and sultry R&B track is all about the thrill of the chase and the excitement of the unknown. With Usher's smooth and seductive vocals and the song's slow and sensual beat, you'll feel the heat and the tension building with every moment.
Adore You - Miley Cyrus Link
This sweet and romantic track is all about falling in love and cherishing the special bond between two people. You'll feel the moment's warmth and intimacy with Miley's tender and heartfelt vocals and the song's gentle melody. This song is perfect for those in a long-distance relationship!
How to Find The Right Sexy Songs
Creating the right playlist is a highly personal process. Whether your daily playlist is a mixture of Nicki Minaj or perhaps something a little more like Harry Styles, for some, it's a little more like Breaking Benjamin; sex music is often a little different. If you are single and want a tracklist full of the best beats to beat it to, or perhaps a mixtape of sensual songs to share with your partner, or some of the top sexiest songs to get yourself in the mood for date night. Whatever your goal is - use that as a base for your top tunes to have sex.
Slow and sensual music, such as R&B, jazz, or classical music, can create a relaxing and intimate atmosphere, helping to decrease stress and increase arousal. On the other hand, more upbeat and energetic music, such as pop, rock, or electronic music, can create a more intense and exciting experience.
Try putting on music that matches your mood or a desired fantasy. For some, that can include power ballad rap by strong females such as JunglePussy (Satisfaction Guaranteed) or anything that makes you feel sexy. If you find a particular track sparks a sexual nature (Britney Spears Toxic - I mean all you need to do is look at the music video to feel some way), feelings of romance (Hear us out on this one - James Blunt Banana Pancakes), sensuality, or power, for
The Ultimate Sex Playlist
It boils down to what feels right; if you need a great song with raunchy lyrics or a sensual music video in the background, the ultimate playlist should feel right. Try experimenting.
Perhaps setting up for a little solo play could mean hitting play on Sex Machine by James Brown while you run a warm bath and light some candles before switching to something with breathy vocals or smooth tracks with rhythmic beat sounds.
It's More Than Just Sexual Healing
Music soothes the soul, can calm you down, or can rile you up for an evening of passionate sex, just as much as it can make you feel like you are in power and command when you are getting ready to masturbate. For some inspiration - look to older mixtapes of the 90s; movies such as Dirty Dancing, Footloose, and Flashdance are a testament to how music can ignite a feeling of passion. Sexy mf songs from previous years are still sensual hits that can get you in the mood.
So take your inspiration from anywhere.
Golden Oldies to Add To Your List
Sweetest Taboo - Sade
‘Need You Tonight' by INXS
You might want to skip adding "Oh Yeah" to come on your list of sex songs - it serves no one. Or perhaps you need a little humour while you cum... No kink-shaming here.
Using Music to Explore New Forms of Masturbation
Music can be a powerful tool for exploring new forms of masturbation and enhancing sexual pleasure. For example, incorporating music into solo sex toys, such as vibrators or masturbators, can create a more immersive and multi-sensory experience. Some sex toys are designed to vibrate or pulse to the beat of the music, creating a synchronized rhythm that can enhance sexual pleasure and lead to more intense orgasms. Additionally, music can enhance fantasies and role-playing scenarios, providing a soundtrack that sets the mood and helps individuals get into character. By using music to explore new forms of masturbation, individuals can add a new dimension to their sexual experiences and discover new ways to experience pleasure.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, music can be a powerful tool for enhancing the experience of masturbation. By understanding how music affects the brain and the body and selecting the right music for personal preferences and desired experiences, individuals can create a more enjoyable and satisfying self-pleasure experience.
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